How Divorce Can Affect Adult Children

Most parents’ first consideration when getting a divorce is what will happen to their children. Divorce can be profoundly emotionally impactful on children. Over half of all marriages end in divorce, which means that plenty of parents are children of divorce themselves. They know how it feels. Some couples even hold off on a divorce until their children have gone through school and moved out of the house. For Read More

Consider Mediating Your Divorce

The last few months sealed your spouse’s fate—you tried, and tried, and tried to work things out, but all that together time during the coronavirus pandemic laid bare the fact that you aren’t meant to be married anymore. However, you know from your friends’ stories what’s in store for you next: the shouting matches, airing of dirty laundry on Facebook, and everyone picking a side in a public court battle.  It Read More

The Business of Divorce: How a Family Business is Handled in a Divorce

When you fall out of love with your spouse and decide to move forward with a divorce, you are probably wondering how your other labor of love—the small business that you’ve spent so much time and money on—will be handled during the legal proceedings. Wondering might be a little generous; you are likely worried, stressed, and anxious. This blog will explore some ways that it might be dealt with during the course of Read More

Why Divorces Can Become Contested

For a moment, consider this scenario: Tomi and Jerry have been married for seven years, have no children or ownership in real property (they have lived in the same apartment complex in Fremont for the duration of the marriage), own a few trinkets here and there, but do not have a large amount of debt. Recently, they have come to an agreement that the marriage isn’t working and a divorce is in order.  This couple Read More

Careful Communication: 4 Tips on How to Talk to Your Kids About Divorce

It’s the conversation you are dreading: having to tell your children that you and your spouse have decided to divorce. You don’t want to let them down and have to watch them process this news that is, to them, earth-shattering. However, you know it must be done. To make this discussion easier on everyone involved, Ahluwalia Law has prepared the following four key pieces of advice. Gather everyone – yes, that Read More

Legal Options for Victims of Spousal Abuse

Many California spouses are currently going through a situation similar to this fictitious scenario: It’s been obvious for a while now that your marriage isn’t working. It started with a small sense that something wasn’t right, that something changed about your husband after you two married and moved in together. Over time, the two of you spend less time together. Then came the verbal abuse. Before it went too Read More


From the leaders of groups that deal with families in crisis:  Susan Myres, President of American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers (AAML) Jill Peña, Executive Director of AAML Dr. Matt Sullivan, President of Association of Family and Conciliation Courts (AFCC) Peter Salem, Executive Director of AFCC Joey Orduña Hastings, CEO, National Council of Juvenile and Family Court Judges Annette Burns, AAML and Former Read More

Fraud in Marriage?

If you are looking to end your marriage, the two options available to you in California are divorce and annulment. Annulment of a marriage is different from divorce, but the reasons people are eligible for an annulment is not widely understood. Divorce is the dissolution of a legally valid marriage while an annulment (also referred to as nullity of marriage) is a finding by the court that there was never a marriage Read More

Madan Ahluwalia, Esq. Has Been Nominated and Accepted as 2019 AIOFLA’S 10 Best in California For Client Satisfaction

The American Institute of Family Law Attorneys has recognized the exceptional performance of California’s Family Law Attorney Madan Ahluwalia, Esq. as 2019 10 Best Family Law Attorney for Client Satisfaction. The American Institute of Family Law Attorneys is a third-party attorney rating organization that publishes an annual list of the Top 10 Family Law Attorneys in each state. Attorneys who are selected to the Read More

Restraining Orders and Child Custody

Restraining Orders and Child Custody Gaining joint or sole custody of your child is hard enough without a restraining order hanging around your neck. Restraining orders (sometimes referred to as protective orders) are useful tools for parents to keep themselves and their children safe, but if you feel you have been unfairly slapped with a temporary (or permanent) restraining order, your attempts to gain custody Read More